The man I want to hold my hand

Rachel andTonya have both put together a list of the man they would ultimately like to be with. Its a list that has alot of focus on what they want to give out aswell.

I have never had a list of qualities I would like in a man. Like with everything else, I just wing it and figure things out as I go along. But I am not so sure thats working to well for me anymore.

So I have decided to put a list together too. I started thinking about it when I read Ts list and I got as far as "he must not be married". But then started actually writing qualities down and eventually had a whole page of things I would like!

I am listing just a few here.

Challenge me - be strong enough to debate with me and challenge me without getting annoyed if I do not agree with you.

Be tidy. If you can throw it on the floor you can throw it in the washing basket.

Kiss me good morning and when you leave.

Communicate. If you are angry or upset or confused or happy or excited - I want to know in a way that is constructive!

You dont need to be rich but financially stable and sensible.

I dont expect you to want to be the next president. But a little ambition would be really appreciated. I will support you - always!

I will make sure we are fed but every now and then maybe offer to cook - even if its heat and eat Woolies meals!

Passion baby passion. Not just sexual passion but a passion for life!

You need to be spontaneous or at the very least flexible! Life is too short for plans and schedules and rosters! If we want to do it then we do it.

Patience. This is one thing I am still working on so cant promise to be patient with you. But you will need to have patience with me. This is my one selfish thing on the list! Two hot heads will create choas.

Make me laugh. Be silly with me. Laugh with me.

Hug me - for no reason. I dont need clingy but I do need to feel your touch for no reason.

And thats what I have for now! It is, however, a work in progress! So I may update it every now and then!