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So he told me I had a nice ass.

It's been a bad week. You know the kind... midterms, ill children, crazy stbx... we have all been there. But I met a friend of a friend who was a massage therapist. Hmmm... just what this going through an ugly divorce mother needs! (And for those of you who don't know me so well, I'm the girl who likes the ring on the finger before the sex. It has been one year now since I've had sex! I am revirginated!) I know *prude* and I love sex... but I am not a FWB or ONS (did I get those right?) kind of girl. Anyway, this massage was my top priority... right after midterms.

And that was today! So I call the guy up and meet him at his clinic. And here is the deal... I know he is gay... so this was not a hookup. So he is very chatty and is just standing there. So I finally took my clothes off in front of him. His reaction... wow, nice ass! So now I'm wondering... my stbx has decided he is gay, and now another gay man likes my ass. Do gay men like women's asses? And why do gay men like my ass?

Either way, the massage was awesome and every woman likes to hear she has a nice ass. I just want to hear it from a straight man!

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Permalink Reply by Gabi on February 27, 2009 at 10:19pm: LOL...Well if he was commenting on your boobs I might have a different answer but yeah....Some gay men have a nice eyes for asses...be it male or female. So just take the compliment and smile honey!!! Too cute!

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Permalink Reply by alexpv507 on February 27, 2009 at 10:27pm: I had a gay roommate once. I knew him for years since we were in the same college frat, but he didn't come out of the closet until he decided to be roomies with me. At first I thought he was just joking since he seemed interested in women and made comments like "that girl over there she's gorgeous!" I think people in general know what's attractive and not attractive regardless of their sexuality. I just keep things to myself when I see a guy or girl at the gym that's in good shape. I think if I were to say that to a girl I'd get slapped or I get a dirty look like "why are you looking at my ass anyways?" So take it as a complement that you have nice ass. : ); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Wendee on February 27, 2009 at 10:28pm: LMAO. A compliment is a compliment in my book. Straight men (let me qualify that - some straight men) have a lot of issues with giving compliments, especially when they aren't going to gain anything from it. I think gay men are way more in touch with themselves and can afford to give out "good feelings."
This is an excellent idea though... couple more weeks... finals... spring break... massage here I come! :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Stephanie on February 28, 2009 at 12:39am: Well, you know why Gay men focus on asses. :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by uomeasmile (Kim) on February 28, 2009 at 5:40am: Ahh... wisdom from across the pond. Well, I will accept any great arse compliment! I have to tell you my arse is sore from the massage... and no, not in the way *some* of you might think. But he did massage it, and it felt damn good...now it's just sore. But I have a new BFF gay, woman's ass loving massage therapist. Sounds just like my stbx, without the massage therapy part. I recommend getting your arse massaged someday -- really!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Angel Christine on February 28, 2009 at 8:33am: Kim, that is AWESOME! I think it's a fantastic compliment that couldn't have come at a better time. Good for you AND your nice ASS!!!!!! Woo-hoo!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Jordan on February 28, 2009 at 12:46pm: I know when a dude is hot and I am most surely not gay. That being said, it seems conceivable that if I can admire another man's butt, then I'm sure a gay dude can easily admire yours. Art is art, right?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by uomeasmile (Kim) on March 1, 2009 at 4:05pm: Your replies have made me smile through a terrible weekend. But it was fun to get a massage, leave my suburban bubble to do it, and get a lovely compliment. Afterwards I had a million things to do, but I did not do them. I basked in the glow of Dallas. And then I realized, I need to get out more often. I have nothing against the suburbs. They are fantastic places to raise kids. But I learned something: A gated community keeps you locked in just as much as it keeps others locked out. I'm ready for real life... Bring it on!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Steve on March 1, 2009 at 4:41pm: Sounds to me like you have a nice ass. Take the compliment and let it brighten your day. BTW now you're getting the right idea, BRING IT ON (enjoy life a little, we all know you deserve it) you go girl!!; ▶ Reply to This